Most of us are trying to be like people we weren't wired to be like, and then sit around wondering why we’re not as successful as they are. This is why I can’t help but cringe when I see an artist walk onstage at open mic night, wearing their singular influence on their sleeve. This phenomenon is the ugly twin of a cover band. (“Okay, already. We know you like Bob!”) Maybe that’s cruel. I know we all have to start somewhere, and I’m not down on newbies. Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. No one is without influence, and we are all derivative of something. The thing is… Artistry comes from taking various ingredients to make your own soup. Expression comes from accepting and speaking your authentic truth. It’s easy for an artist, a side hustler, or even an entrepreneur to bypass this process entirely, thinking they are shortcutting their path to success. But they are really shooting themselves in the foot. Maybe they’re not missing out on the success or the money (debatable...